How to Get Un-Stuck

Are you a stick in the mud? Or stuck in the mud? Just one little letter change makes all the difference in the meaning. Stick the mud means someone who’s no fun, who doesn’t want to join in the fun. Stuck in the mud means you can’t get out. You’re stuck. You can’t advance. If …

Unpacking Time

I’ve always been fascinated by time, time travel and the past. I’m not very good at estimating length or distance, but time, I’m spot on. I’m one of those people who can calculate to the minute how much time I need to do something or get somewhere [not using GPS]. I’m never late, always early …

Bossy vs Leader

As with many of my blog posts, this was inspired by a client. If you’ve had a reading with me, then you know that I channel your Higher Self and guides. They often give messages that I can’t control or not what you’d expect to hear. Sometimes they can be very direct and tell me …

Take the High Road…or Not?

The decision to take the high road in a situation is a very personal one. And not one that some of us can take, or at least take consistently. It’s not easy to take the high road. For some people it may seem easy. For those of us who can’t do it as easily we …

Let Go of the Control

We may secretly laugh at control freaks because they’re so uptight, but really, they’re scared. Scared of life. They’re afraid to do this or afraid to do that so they think if they can control every facet of a situation, then they’ll be ok. They’ll be safe. They won’t have anxiety. Or the big one …

Feel Your Feelings

Anyone ever tell you it’s not nice to feel a certain way? Or that you shouldn’t feel that way? It’s typical for people respond to our feelings this way. They think they’re helping. But they’re not. They’re Judging You Really what they’re doing is judging. Or shaming you. Or projecting their values onto you. It’s …

Hope Doesn’t Produce Results

Sometimes it’s obvious what we’re doing wrong to thwart ourselves, our goals in life.  Addictions, not paying attention to things, blaming, judging etc. Other times it’s the little things like our words that stop us from getting what we want. Don’t underestimate the power of words. They can make or break a situation. One to …

I Change, You Change

People don’t like it when you change. Ever notice that? You go on a diet and they tell you that you don’t need to lose weight. You get a new hair style and they say you looked great before, why change? You’d think they’d be happy for us, right? Not always. Why is that? Because …

Counteract Black Magic

Recently someone close to me lost some of their cognitive abilities. I’ll call that person Person A. Another person, Person B, stepped in tried to brainwash Person A in order to gain control of them. A friend of mine used a different word for that control – black magic and spells. According to what I …